What's the deal with diabetics?

There are over 346 million of us diagnosed with diabetes, who knows how many more walking around clueless that they have it, and more and more finding out every day. Don't we all have enough to fight without fighting each other too?
I visit sites. I make a simple post, ask some questions that are important to me and I get torn a new one by some Type 1s. What is it "My Type 1 is better than your Type 2"? It seems like if you ask a simple question or make a statement that they think is foolish you are a target for ridicule. Sorry. Didn't know there was a test you had to pass to be considered a diabetic worthy of respect. I thought checking your sugar, watching everything you eat, balancing meds, worrying about what was going to happen to you down the line was enough to make you a full member of the "diabetic club."